Heartbroken> =(

last SG · 2008-01-03T21:23:19+00:00

Bro, you see, some people get over broken heart : 1. Fast, 2. Slow, 3. Neveryour "headache" now should be which category to choose. If a lady vacillates btw...

Zarks SG

even if TS really have balls and meet the guy. the conclusion is still the same..

the decision is decided by the gal.. sometimes i think we must strive to get what is ours.. but think bout it.. if the gal already have dilemma, i dun think balls to balls would do anything different.. its all up to the gal..

sprakster SG

Blardie hell! Why nowadays got so many 23-25yr old guys on friendster got car randomly pm girls hu got bf and chase them. Somemore these buggers are damn blardie irritating la!

My gf got loads of these guys pming her and at least a few so far fit ur description. Somemore I'm going NS in abt a few months time arghh. TS i understand how u feel abt that random guy totally. So far my gf n I have had much entertainment with these guys but lately they just seem to get more and more annoying. Currently there's one that is also trying to pull her away from me insisting that she n i wun last...

Sorry for hijacking ur thread TS, just thought i could share with u and help u vent ur frustration over these random 25yr olds with cars on friendster.

nuub1987 SG

Laughing

ahkeat SG

most of the time i see in the local scene, if a couple breaks up.. thats it..its really hard to get back tgt.

of cos i got the balls to talk to him but she wont let me to. and im not so cheap to sneak up to her phone n check for his number. its just not right.

i wan to move on.. i wan to just say lets break up. but those beautiful memories reap me apart whenever i think abt it.. hai..give me a punch so i'll think properly..zzz

Isis SG

I think her heart has changed. What can you do to salvage the relationship ?
Thing happens and perhaps both of you are not meant to be. It is really nobody's fault here cos feelings cannot be controlled. It just happens that the new guy is there at the right place at the right time when she needs someone to lean on the most. Perhaps she is not mature enuff and strong-willed in her heart for you. Perhaps the love that both of you have isn't strong enough to withstand external intrusion. Since this has shown that the love can't be tested, then just forget it.

Quoted: "She was numb about you and him". I am guessing that she had been battling her emotion over you and him and come to a point of time that she became sianz about it. I don't think she deliberately wanting to cheat on you. I also guessed that she had accidentally fall in love with there third guy.

Yeah whatever it is, decide on some thing that lessen the pain for both of you. Yeah, can you stand her talking to there guy infront of you when she is with u? Perhaps, she will realise you are the one she love... just Perhaps

Boka v2.0 SG

The moment view a girl as beyong an object,you are finish.
The mentality that girl i an object is very safe.
Always know that if she dissapoints u,u can go out and find a new one.

Memories are burden and illusions,do not hang on and cherish for they can always be created.

ahkeat SG

but she say she want to feel for me again she jjust dunno how..
what am i to think ?

magical_wen SG

wad the...
hearing this is sad...
typical..common..
sometimes when u think u cant be so swey,
it happens to u anyway.

25year old guy playing friendster..
lure someone elses gf..
a jerk.
but still u cnt do much rite..
serving NS,
limited time and money.
girl gets lonely,
find another person for companionship.
it a way of life..no matter u like it or not.
u must know this isnt abt trust anymore,
since she has already 'betrayed' u.

Let it go bah...
it will hurt, no matter wad choice u choose.
but still,
zhi de mah?
is she worth it anot.
think hard before doing thing.

Good luck.

browniebaobao SG

do u dare to take a risk?

leave her alone and see whether she comes back to u.

it seems that she cares more abt him than u leh..

u muz be mentally prepared.

Xcert SG

not much point in making it a big mess when she already strayed from U.

there is always someone better out there...question is whether U want to let go of the current one. Rolling Eyes

Xcert SG

personally I will tell her to save it...but that's me.

Xcert SG

agree.

Isis SG

Maybe she is just confused with her own feeling about you and there guy. Give her some time to sort her own feeling. Don't you need some time for your heart to be heal too?

There is a possibility that she will stay with you and a possibility that she will leave you. Let time tells you the answer. Whatever it is, it is.

ahkeat SG

im already prepared for the worst.. mayb im just not willing to accept it n wan to deceive myself that she will come back...

SpeedStar SG

A satisfied woman will never be seduced. Know u treasure her alot, but since she betray u in the first place, do u think u still can manage the same kind of relationship as before??

Anyway u r still in NS, still young, there will be lots of chances after u ORD. Be brave and end this to pull urself out of this misery. There are so many things to look forward to beside relationship, hope this helps Wink

FBI SG

break and learn to forget her.. there's no point.. sometimes when its time to let go, u shld

jara SG

u enlist 10 jan?

Isis SG

Normal. Don't deem this relationship as a good thing. You want to see it good but it's no longer good as it has changed. It can get better or worse. You don't have to do anything about it. It will change by itself.

de_middle SG

just take it as game over & move on Neutral

Tier SG

I think your gf is ridiculous. 2 timing u and another guy.
But still acting like she is the pityful soul.

A good girl doesnt act this way. having a bf shouldnt still date other guys.

Maybe I am old already cannot accept such modern act...
Tsk tsk tsk...

she is just trying to achieve two best world.
She is really not worth it.

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